DIY Wedding Guide: What to DIY vs Hire in 2025

published on 14 November 2024
By Shauna Summers, purchased to support artists.
By Shauna Summers, purchased to support artists.

Planning to DIY your wedding? Smart thinking! But not everything should be a do-it-yourself project. "The key to successful DIY weddings is choosing the right elements to tackle yourself," explains wedding planner Tracy Taylor Ward in Martha Stewart Weddings.

Check our micro wedding planners directory for professionals who can help with the tasks you shouldn't DIY.

Trending DIY Wedding Projects for 2025

Wedding designer David Stark shares with Vogue these popular DIY projects:

Eco-Friendly Decor:

  • Pressed flower installations
  • Living plant centerpieces
  • Dried flower arrangements
  • Herb garden favors
  • Seed paper decorations Cost Savings: $800-1,500

Digital Elements:

  • Custom wedding website
  • Digital seating charts
  • QR code experiences
  • Virtual photo walls
  • Custom hashtag displays Cost Savings: $500-1,000

Personal Touches:

  • Hand-painted wedding signs
  • Custom cocktail menus
  • Memory photo walls
  • Guest message stations
  • Family recipe displays Cost Savings: $400-800

Best Elements to DIY in 2025

According to The Knot's 2025 DIY Study, these elements have the highest DIY success rates:

Decor & Details:

  • Centerpieces
  • Welcome signs
  • Table numbers
  • Favor packaging
  • Photo displays
  • Guest book alternatives

"Simple decor projects can save thousands while adding personal touches," notes DIY expert David Tutera.

Stationery Items:

  • Save the dates
  • Invitations
  • Programs
  • Menu cards
  • Place cards
  • Thank you notes

Paper goods designer Ceci Johnson tells Brides: "Digital design tools have made professional-looking stationery accessible to DIYers."

Elements to Never DIY

Wedding insurance expert Steve Lauro warns in WeddingWire: "Some DIY attempts can actually cost more in the long run - both financially and emotionally."

Always Hire Pros For:

  • Photography
  • Food safety items
  • Electrical work
  • Complex lighting
  • Legal documents
  • Structural items

"Professional photography is non-negotiable," emphasizes celebrity planner Mindy Weiss. "Those memories can't be recreated."

Detailed Cost Analysis by Project

According to The Wedding Report:

Invitation Suites:

  • Professional: $1,500-2,500
  • DIY Digital: $250-400
  • DIY Letterpress: $600-800
  • DIY Handmade: $300-500 ROI: Up to 80% savings

Centerpieces:

  • Professional: $150-300 each
  • DIY Fresh: $50-75 each
  • DIY Dried: $30-50 each
  • DIY Potted: $25-40 each ROI: Up to 85% savings

Signage:

  • Professional: $75-200 per sign
  • DIY Digital: $15-30 per sign
  • DIY Hand-Lettered: $20-40 per sign
  • DIY Wooden: $30-50 per sign ROI: Up to 75% savings

Advanced DIY Projects

Event designer Preston Bailey suggests these showstopper DIY elements:

Statement Installations:

  • Flower walls
  • Suspended centerpieces
  • Light canopies
  • Backdrop installations
  • Photo moment stations Professional Cost: $2,000-5,000 DIY Cost: $500-1,000

Interactive Elements:

  • Custom game stations
  • Guest art projects
  • Memory sharing walls
  • Time capsule displays
  • Group photo projects Professional Cost: $1,500-3,000 DIY Cost: $300-600

Food & Beverage:

  • Signature cocktail stations
  • Dessert displays
  • Late night snack bars
  • Welcome drink setups
  • Favor stations Professional Cost: $1,000-2,500 DIY Cost: $200-500

Cost Comparison by Wedding Size

Wedding economist Christine Chang provides this 2025 analysis:

Intimate Wedding (20 guests):

  • Full Professional: $8,000
  • Partial DIY: $5,000
  • Full DIY: $3,000 Labor Hours Needed: 40-60

Medium Wedding (50 guests):

  • Full Professional: $18,000
  • Partial DIY: $12,000
  • Full DIY: $8,000 Labor Hours Needed: 80-100

Large Wedding (100 guests):

  • Full Professional: $35,000
  • Partial DIY: $25,000
  • Full DIY: $18,000 Labor Hours Needed: 120-150

Money-Saving DIY Tips

Financial planner Ramit Sethi shares in I Will Teach You To Be Rich: "Successful DIY isn't about doing everything yourself - it's about maximizing your return on investment."

Best ROI DIY Projects:

  • Invitation assembly: Save $300-500
  • Centerpieces: Save $500-1,000
  • Welcome bags: Save $200-400
  • Favor packaging: Save $150-300
  • Signage: Save $200-500

Looking for budget-friendly attire? Check our wedding dress rental guide and vintage dress marketplace!

Hidden Costs of DIY

Wedding budget expert Jessica Bishop warns: "DIY isn't always cheaper when you factor in these hidden costs:"

Common Expenses:

  • Tools and equipment
  • Learning materials
  • Practice runs
  • Backup supplies
  • Storage space
  • Transportation
  • Emergency fixes

Planning a small celebration? See our guide to planning a 20-guest wedding.

Timeline for DIY Projects

Event planner Jung Lee shares in Vogue: "The key to DIY success is starting early and being realistic about time commitments."

6+ Months Before:

  • Learn necessary skills
  • Order samples
  • Test projects
  • Source materials
  • Create timelines
  • Build in buffers

2-3 Months Before:

  • Start production
  • Organize storage
  • Arrange help
  • Plan setup
  • Create backups

For seasonal planning, check our eco-friendly wedding ideas!

DIY Support Team

"Even DIY weddings need a team," notes planner Amber Harrison in The Spruce.

Essential Help:

  • Setup crew
  • Cleanup team
  • Emergency fixers
  • Supply runners
  • Timeline keeper
  • Point person

Ready to Start DIYing?

Remember:

  • Choose projects wisely
  • Start early
  • Build a support team
  • Have backup plans
  • Know when to hire pros
  • Focus on high-ROI items

Need help deciding what to DIY? Our micro wedding planners can guide your choices!

See our complete micro vs traditional wedding cost comparison for more budget insights.

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